Dominant Dancer Looking For Classy 24/7 Sub
Recently, I was approached with a rather unusual request: Finding a submissive partner for life on behalf of an Austrian businessman, who has a dominant orientation but no relation to the private BDSM scene.
Even though this does not really belong to the "Session" category of my blog, since it is not about ideas for an individual session, but rather for an entire life together – kids and everything – I decided to publish his search here after all.
Dating Agency: Casting a Woman for Life
Much the same way I am usually ready to cast co-players for individual fantasies, I am now casting a 24/7 life partner: The gentleman seeking his perfect sub approached me because he deemed my business concept respectable enough and thought I, as a person and passionate BDSM lover, had sufficient experience to help him more effectively than a traditional dating agency. And I can in fact see how my support and me acting as his reference might help the dom in his search for the proverbial “needle in a haystack”. As the author of one of the most elaborate BDSM websites, I enjoy a certain degree of popularity in the private as well as in the commercial scene and many people of all genders already had a chance to witness my prudent set up of “projects” in many different ways. A passive woman actually may trust my judgment more than mere self-marketing in an anonymous “Man seeking Woman” ad.
I compiled a few excerpts from our e-mail correspondence that contain a description of himself and his relationship goals. Ladies that are seriously interested can get more information through me:
As a naturally dominant person with an appreciation for education, sophistication, manners and beauty, I am looking for a dedicated sub, who passionately submits herself, for a real D/S relationship. I have neither the nerve nor the desire to get involved in the “scene”. Instead, I want a stable life partner, with whom I can integrate our mutual inclinations into a monogamous relationship and fully enjoy them. I also want kids, thus the same should be true for her, and she should not be older than 40 years. I am in my early 50s.
As owner and CEO of a company, I have always lived with both feet firmly on the ground. I like to spoil my sub – physically as well as emotionally. I want to offer her a sheltered, safe, and wonderful life full of travel and social entertainment, as well as a fantastic erotic life with many surprises and new horizons.
Harmony is important to me, I give it and I need it – ongoing arguments are my personal nightmare. I also love to talk eye-to-eye with my partner, however, her authentic devotion is important to me even in everyday life. I am looking for a friendly and loving person, gentle, humorous, warm, trusting, very affectionate and devoted to serving her partner/dom, to free him from stress and to be there for him. D/S is not a game for me, it is a way of life. It is about my and her true predispositions, which we will integrate in all aspects of our lives
I have participated in international ballroom dance competitions for many years and still dance standard. I appreciate esthetic taste and very much adore styling and clothing on an attractive woman and I support that in any way I can. Perfect make up, high heels, skirt, blouse, etc. are a must. I admit that I am a very visually oriented person. She will never lack the financial means to buy what she needs for that.
I am into slim women, ideally a size 36 or 38. Origin, color of skin and ethnicity are not important to me, since I am well-traveled and have a wide spectrum. However, she must have a permanent residence permit for the EU and be willing to move to my place quickly and without any fuss.
With regards to fetishes and BDSM, I have a very wide spectrum. Masochism on the side of the passive partner is no absolute precondition. Any taboos and physical resilience are strictly respected and can be specified in a slave contract, should the situation arise. Of course, I expect openness as well as bondage and D/S rituals (punishment/rewards/spitting domination, etc.). I also enjoy piss play, giving and receiving the "natural champagne". A pleasure in styling and beautiful dessous and clothes/shoes as well as true devotion are absolute musts.
I would like to entrust you with this unusual search and hope that with your help and your expertise I will get to know a suitable sub and start a happy life with her. Please make a preselection for me, keeping the desired criteria in mind. I then would like to book dates for first contact as well as for sessions with you/at your place to get to know each other and to make mutual arrangements with the future partner to avoid disappointments when being together for real and for good. I do not want to hurt or deceive anybody and I expect the same from the other person.
What is next? Where should I look?
I got the explicit permission to also look amongst my circle of BDSM girlfriends and among colleagues, however, very few of them are willing to give up the contact to the scene in favor of a monogamous relation. Professional slaves, who might quit their job in favor of such a relation, are often not naturally submissive. Furthermore, my girlfriends and many sex work colleagues also do not meet the other search criteria.
So it certainly will be a difficult search. But nothing sought, nothing found. And especially in the world of bizarre erotic, you can find interesting characters and relationships constellations time and again that go beyond your wildest fantasies. Even “something like me” actually should not exist, but I am living my dream. The same is true for other BDSM lovers.
The search campagne will be done on a large scale: We will advertise online and in print media, we will post notices at locations and events or hand out flyers. If you have useful tips or know better suited circles or even think that you could be “Ms. Right”, please use the form below to get in touch with me.
